In this deeply personal and raw presentation, Matt discusses the emotional trauma of losing his father on 9/11 and the irreparable damage it caused. He delves into his obsessive quest to discover exactly how his father died—and how his grief was compounded by being sexually assaulted. For years, Matt battled with drug and alcohol addiction. Arrests, rehabs, and near-death experiences were not enough to break these habits. A spiritual experience from his father was the defining moment that made him question his purpose, get sober, and lead the life his father would have wanted for him. Matt’s story is full of vulnerability and heartbreak—but also resilience and hope. His brutal honesty implores the audience to face their struggles head-on.

Our world was forever changed on the morning of 9/11. People old enough to remember that fateful day can recollect precisely where they were as the events unfolded. They also recall their sadness, grief, and anger. But how many people still discuss how they felt on 9/12? In the aftermath of 9/11, a seismic shift occurred in how people treated one another. There was a remarkable surge of unity and love and a belief in the enduring power of hope. In this presentation, Matt shares how 9/11 left an indelible mark on his life. He emphasizes the significance of embracing the “9/12” mentality. This mentality is a motivational force that can guide us in the present and illuminate the path to a brighter, hopeful future.

Stained-glass windows are captivating from a distance, with sunlight creating a vibrant display. What often remains hidden is that these intricate masterpieces comprise fragments of shattered glass, each playing its part in creating a spectacle transcending their individuality. In many ways, we share a parallel with these stained-glass windows. Behind a composed exterior, we often conceal our inner fractures—emotional and traumatic scars. As one draws nearer and delves deeper, the truth emerges. In this keynote, Matt explores the power of vulnerability, particularly in confronting our traumas, demonstrating how these wounds can serve as the foundation for personal growth and transformation.